Myrra Roslan

Kesan Perasaan Takut Pada Anak

2012-01-24T03:52:00.006+08:00

Selalu tak menonton TV bersama dengan anak? TV bukan saja curi masa bersama keluarga malah mencuri masa kita menguruskan selain ia tidak baik untuk anak. Tapi jika nak juga menonton TV, terutama cerita seram pastikan menonton ketika anak tiada. bila anak dah tidur atau pergi keluar bermain.

Takut pada anak bukan saja datang dari cerita di TV. sometimes ia datang dari parent itu sendiri. Ada parent yang menakutkan anak mereka dengan gelap, atau apa saja yang ditakuti oleh anak seperti lipas, cicak and etc. Mungkin niat mereka mulanya untuk bergurau dengan anak tetapi penerimaan anak kita pula adalah satu ketakutan dan bukannya gurauan.

Sekadar berkongsi kata-kata dari 'Arb Bin Saad : "Anak-anak akan lemah badannya bila diserang rasa takut, penat dan mungkin dihinggapi kebodohan apabila sering ditakut-takutkan. Sikap selalu menakut-nakutkan anak boleh membunuh perasaaan dan jiwanya lalu menyebabkan nilai-nilai murni dalam dirinya mati. Sesiapa yang mati perasaannya, tidak diharapkan daripadanya sebarang kebaikkan. Hidupnya juga tidak akan membuahkan hasil."

(dari 'Arb bin Saad)

update for September 2011

2011-11-17T03:13:00.003+08:00

Happy Befday husband!I LOVE YOU! May Allah ease your days :-*

Happy 10MOS Sweetheart! at 10mth zidan now can seat at baby chair. it was more easier for yummy time sebab sweetheart ni dah tak bole duduk diam. tapi memang kena sabar sikit lah sebab nak bagi zidan mamam sangat take times.

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continues from last post...

tadaaa!

Alhamdulillah im now graduate for Diploma Professional Make Up Artistry. Yeayyy.

for almost a year my husband and our lil sweetheart sacrifies for me to take this course. Thank you my love!

my second event as make up artist! my first was with Miss Malaysia/Universe 2011.

bukan make up kereta ok!

actually my job was to make up company vvip and ushers. suddenly her PA asked if can make up Ella since her personal make up artist was late. seriously memang i nervous time tu but, as a professional of course i say yes kan. huhu.

this one Airbrush fantasy make up

hairbun and hair style.

to be continue later!

some update for August 2011

2011-11-17T00:56:00.073+08:00

Happy 9MOS Zidan Zihni!

a lil helper. everytime beli groceries mesti zidan tolong ayahanda tolak trolly.

yeay! saya dah bole berdiri sendiri :D

dah start nak panjat panjat sane sini.

thanks my husband!

Buku Hadis 40 Imam Nawawi ini adalah antara yang tersendiri dalam kelasnya di mana setiap satu daripada 42 hadis yang terkandung dalam himpunan HADIS 40 ini diiringi dengan gambar foto, pemandangan, objek, artifak dan grafik untuk menguatkan isi dan hujah serta huraian hadis.

my first time! seriously i sangat lah not so up-to-date especially bab makanan.argh lantak bila rasa teringin nak makan baru beli.

breakfasting gathering with our batch.

lovelovelove! thank you aunty eita.

zidan's first ride from convention center to klcc

thudguard - infant safety hat

zidan: hi peeps this is my very safety helmet.

seriously hope with this i dont have to worry sangat la sebab actually i dah jadi very sensitive and over protected to my sweetheart after the incident zidan jatuh from baby cot. oh well mak mana tak risau and takut. especially if the things wasn't happened depan mata sendiri.

zidan's new car, thank you ayahanda!

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri!

dah macam dekat white room pulak. phew! susah ok nak snap gamba dengan si kecik ni.

second trip to national stadium bukit jalil. this is me and my husband well prepared. siap beli earmuff lagi.

update lagi and lagi!

2011-11-15T08:29:00.002+08:00

Happy 7mos Zidan Zihni! this is the way of baby yang tak minum FM (formula milk) pegang bottle. thee! dah 7month baru nak pegang sendiri bottle eh. but im so lucky sebab zidan sangat la suka minum plain water ni.

zidan: this is my fav ok! dapat jadi tinggi dari mama and tarik rambut ayahanda kuat kuat.

tummy time! suka baca buku besar besar. geget my liltle fren 'mr tiger'. guling guling.

Happy 8mos Zidan Zihni!

zidan's teeth grow 2 batang at the bottom. actually takde fever pon but i just letak cool fever bila badan zidan dah rasa suam suam kuku. as people said prevention is better than cure kan.

zidan now dah bole crawling.

now also dah pandai duduk sendiri

zidan can stand too! Yeay!!

where am i now?

his very first time went to Stadium Bukit Jalil!

if not mistaken this match between MAS vs Chinese Taipei.

seriously, tak plan langsung nak bawak zidan. my mom babysit zidan tapi entah kenapa zidan menangis macam tau mama ayahanda nak pegi stadium. so aci redah je lah without baby's carrier, baby's fan bagai. tapi my husband ni memang semangat nak bawak anak kesayangan dia. time tu jugak la ayahanda beli jersey Malaysia for zidan (his first jersey).

sangat focus tengok ayahanda main bola.

every weekend zidan duduk tepi padang tengok match ayahanda. so excited!

mangsa zidan la ni. poor pak cu. hehe.

first time makan dekat Sa'ba cyberjaya. not bad la. tapi bagi i and my husband yang kurus ni we all share je nasi arab yang sangat besar.

Happy Newly Wed Diha&Zubir!

Selamat Pengantin Baru Zila&Amir!

sorry sisters diha&zila sebab tak dapat attend wedding aritu. nway, wish u both bahagia dan kekal hingga ke akhir hayat and cepat dapat baby.

Zidan meet Amna!

kesian my sweetheart kena stay home je.

i shopping both anak beranak ni sempat lagi nap.

Zidan meet aunty ct at klcc.

durian oh durian!

5 hengget sekilo dah jadi behengget hengget. my husband cakap durian area tampin murah murah. so beli lah 5 biji. sekali dah masuk plastik tauke tu cakap 95hengget! hambikkk! my husband ngidam durian mahal rupanya.

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11.11.11

2011-11-11T01:56:00.000+08:00

To Sayang, Husband, Ayahanda,

HAPPY OUR 9th ANNIVERSARY!

just remember one thing, I LOVE YOU!

11.11.02 - We starts our friendship/relationship

16.11.08 - Our engagement date

29.11.09 - We get married

19.11.10 - Our 1st lil prince was born

29.11.10 - Our 1st wedding anniversary

11.11.11 - TODAY! Our 9th anniversary

Finally Im back!

2011-11-10T16:51:00.066+08:00

Salam & Hi everyone!

Phewww... for almost half a year i have been missing from the bloggers world!

where am i going to ya???

teeettt!

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that one i will story later...

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this time i nak update journey from 6mth yang i dah miss out.

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Happy 6mths old my Zidan Zihni! Syukur, alhamdulillah pejam celik pejam celik dah half a year i breastfeed kan zidan exclusively. rezeki zidan. another 1 and half year more!!!

hello playmat! lepas je zidan actively meniarap, rolling here and there terus ayahanda beli kan playmat ni untuk anak kesayangan dia.

see, sampai tertido pon atas playmat!

"alif ba taa"...

this is the most favourite time i love and one of the bonding activity we had every month.

baru 6mth dah mula panjat memanjat.

Enjoy your food sweetheart! Alhamdulillah, zidan now can starts his solid food. this one i blend porridge with mashed kurma.

That's my son

2011-05-11T08:49:00.142+08:00

at 5mth old zidan dah bole recognize when someone call his name. I love to call zidan with "ZidanZihni". I rasa zidan sangat happy with his name sebab everytime to calm down, my husband will sing "MuhammadZidanZihni" then zidan terus tesenyum senyum. Wah bijak betul baby zaman sekarang ni.

Zidan now can feeds self and playing with both feet tho. Actually, since 4mth lagi dah starts pegang just that when reach 5mth dah jadi favorite plak.

Feel so happy and sangat bebaloi jadi fulltime mummy bila bole monitor and tengok sendiri development zidan from week-to-week and mth-to-mth. So when my husband balik je rumah dgn sangat excited nya i will update him pasal zidan.

i still searching on info pasal food nutrition and baby feeding patterns. I bagi mashed kurma to zidan as first food. then, i beli plak ready-made product Heinz rusk but after 2 times feeds i stop jugak. I supposed to feeds zidan at least 4 times untuk tengok if ada allergic reactions. Tapi alhamdulillah takde allergic just that zidan poo poo sekali je per day sebab nomally 3-4 kali. I rasa sebab kurang minum air that why susah sikit nak digest. one things, im not quite prefer ready made foods sebab high sugar content and salt added. aiyo, lepas ate the rusk zidan memang refused to sleep and being so actively sampai tengah malam.

Weaning tips

Don't rush your baby - give him as much time as the baby needs to feed
Make sure you're both relaxed before you start to feed
Feed your baby on your lap or in a high chair
When introducing new foods, try to mix them in with familiar ones
Go at your baby's pace and don't be upset if baby refuses the food - he'll get used to the idea in time
Try to increase the amount of food your give your baby - give solids for two of his meals each day.

Insyaallah i will starts bagi solid foods once zidan dah 6mth nanti. i prefer homemade food. Love to try to make bubur nasi mix with ikan bilis and vegi. My husband cakap better ada termos bole keep warm so bila outing senang. Just query if simpan dalam termos bole tahan bape lame?

Don't add any salt and sugar to your baby's food and drink - if baby's eating food prepared for the whole family, make sure ur baby portion has been set aside before seasoning.

informative url; http://www.netmums.com/h/n/FOOD/weaning/

These foods should also be avoided for babies under 12 months:

Honey
Salt
Shark, swordfish or marlin (due to high mercury levels)
Goats and sheep's milk
Mould ripened soft cheeses

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Happy Mother's day

2011-05-10T15:05:00.028+08:00

Happy Mother's day to my ibu, my MIL and all mommies.

Lovelovelove! New books for me. Thanks ayahanda :-* gonna spend my time to reading after this.

Celebrate mother's day with zidan and nia. Both born on the same date and sharing their birth place tho.

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My Zidan!

2011-04-28T12:57:00.096+08:00

Tadaaa... bath time! sangat seronok when it come to bath time. the very good time to bonding with him.

i felt so lucky bcoz zidan love water. senang cakap TAK TAKUT AIR!

here is some guide for 1st time mommy for bath time;

be careful to support baby's head and neck. that's why i prefer to use sponge for bathtub since my very first time mandikan zidan until now. tak payah nak risau letak je sponge in the bathtub then put ur baby. easy. if tak jumpa where to buy this safe sponge just go to the nearest Mothercare outlet. not very sure if Fabulousmom got it sebab dekat online tak ada.

how to start? baby might catch a cold easily. get everything you need laid out in the room before bringing baby into the bathroom, such as diaper, clean clothes, baby lotion/oil and nappy cream.

many first time mommy not sure when should they bathe baby before or after feeding. feed ur babies before bath time is not advisable as the baby would end to vomit in the bath.

i prefer to feed my zidan after bath time. normally, mandikan zidan at 930am. lepas tu terus breastfeed zidan and prepare for nap time. dulu pernah jugak tried to feed him before bath time tapi zidan will act cranky so memang tak sempat nak massage and letak nappy cream bagai.

tengok dah pandai buat macam macam posisi dkt rocker pon dah bole meniarap ok. tesangat la active nya. tapi for me better la dari sepanjang hari nak tido je kan. but anyway it depends on la, ada yang suka baby mereka tido je sebab nak senang buat keje. nangis bagi botol or pacifier then paksa tido lagi.

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Amalan Membaca

2011-04-21T08:37:00.005+08:00

another book for mama. thanks Ayahanda! my hubby bought this book few months ago. but almost a month jugak la baru i khatam buku ni. seriously tak sempat membaca if tak pandai curi masa. I LOVE THIS SUPERBABY BOOK! it give you and ur child a head start in the first 3yrs with so much tips, tools and techniques for encouraging child's development. sangat sesuai dijadikan reference.

still remember my last post how TV risks for children?

attention deficit disorder - every hour of TV watched per day at age 1 to 3 for almost 10percent chance of developing attention problems that could be diagnosed as attention deficit hyperactive disorder (ADHN) by age 7. exposing a baby to the quick changing images of modern TV also may overstimulate developing brain, causing permanent changes in the developing neutral pathways.

wah, TV jugak penyebab Asthma and High blood pressure!

TV lead to poor quality sleep and poor eyesight problem. this one memang betul. my nephew baru 3yrs dah rabun mencecah 500 both side! tebal ok i tengok eyeglasses dia. aiyooo. pity him.

TV commercials may influence child's thinking :-|

TV can drop ur child creativity - this one memang tak best!

oh my... tele-chubbies! how TV is making kids fat? watch a lot of TV are more likely to rate unhealthy foods. the more children watch TV commercials the more likely they are to eat sugar cereal. the more TV kids view, the less likely it is that they will consume for fruits and vegi.

Yada Yada Yada! my baby got book. Amalam suka membaca harus dipupuk dari seawal usia. my hubby dah start belikan zidan buku since 3mths. selain diperdengarkan bacaan surah al-Quran setiap kali selepas subuh. i akan bacakan zidan buku cerita. selalunya bila dibacakan buku mesti mereka akan tertidur tapi, Alhamdulillah, zidan very enjoying the story and books so far. mudahan ianya berkekalan lah.

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Pics updates

2011-04-20T21:43:00.002+08:00

Zidan memang tak suka tido dekat cot. tapi this time entah how bole fall asleep plak. if always like this suka nya. thee!

see how difficult si kecik ni nak tidur. at last my hubby yang fall asleep.

hah now on memang jangan harap lah i nak leave him alone in the rocker. dah pandai nak turun sendiri ok. sungguh la berani.

macam2 style but still nak hisap jugak jari. sometimes dengan tangan sekali nak masuk mulut. tak tau macam mana nak buang habit yang satu ni.

see if outing zidan memang baik dengan ayahanda je. sampai tidur pon mesti cari ayahanda. amboiiii!

with new toy. my hubby belikan and name it 'tiger malaya'. aih, every month sure dapat new toys. dah sebakul toys. bila masuk Mothercare haru betul tengok my hubby shopping sakan. i baru angkut one item tapi my hubby dah penuh tangan. hebat2.

afterall zidan memang very behave when outing. tak pernah menangis or menjerit in public lagi so far. Alhamdulillah! paling best everytime driving alone, zidan akan tertidur in car seat. ingat lagi my first time drive with zidan from putrajaya to subang, sumpah i very scared if zidan akan menjerit jerit time tu drive pon dengan lutut teketaq la. nak cepat sampai tapi at the same time kena drive slow takut bahaya.

dah bole angkat both head and hands.

since my house dah install Unifi ni dapat lah zidan watch Baby First channel. tapi tak bole lama2 sebab baby until 3yrs kids tak digalakkan tengok tv. kenapa? ha yang tu i story next post.

zidan dah awake. as usual asal midnite je mesti bangun balik nak ajak main.

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Happy 5mth Old Zidan Zihni

2011-04-20T15:15:00.001+08:00

Mama & Ayahanda love you so much!

Thought of to reschedule balik si kecik ni punya schedule especially on nap time. Lately zidan suka betul nak nap after maghrib. confirm lah bedtime pon drag sumtimes 12 midnite pon belum tentu zidan nak tido. Pity him! and me tho.

Alhamdulillah, so far zidan tak pernah demam lagi lepas pegi immune. Thanks to my magic milk! Wallaaa.

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Tummy Time

2011-03-25T09:03:00.001+08:00

Reach 4month zidan dah pandai meniarap by himself.

Babies easy get bored when we place them lay on their backs. It is so true. Zidan really love to explore the world. So bila in the prone position sangat excited ok. Chaiyok2 lepas ni boleh crawl plak.

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Blogger for Android

2011-03-19T13:30:00.001+08:00

Ayahanda's bought this romper. Dah tak muat. Happy 4 month old Muhammad Zidan Zihni. Mama trying this app.

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Birthday Present

2011-03-17T21:54:00.015+08:00

I've been living without a techie phone for more than a year i guess (clumsy misplaced my phone a month before wedding day) and oh my... it's very hard ok (i sungguh besabar tau). i should admit, im not a very techie. you can call me stingy or whatever... because i'd rather spend my 3k for facial set or bag than to a phone. and i don't really bother not having the latest cool gadget like everyone else. techie stuff i own are the essentials one, it was my lappy and DSLR (hantaran from my hubby).

guessed it right. It's a phone!

my hubby got me this as my birthday present at Samsung, The Gardens. my hubby so insist to buy me this instead of iphone4 bcoz of few reason.

Thank you sayang!

Buah Hati Mama

2011-03-05T18:17:00.003+08:00

lately busy jaga si kecik ni sampai nak post 3mths punya update pon tak sempat. Happy 3 Month Old Muhammad Zidan Zihni.

zidan sekarang sangat suka explore new things sampai terteleng teleng kepala nak explore environment baru. if bawak zidan pegi tengok ayahanda main bola mesti dia tak nak stay dalam stroller. so kena la i dukung, memang lenguh segala tangan kaki sebab zidan dah 7kg++.

zidan yang dah makin banyak babbling and suka main. susah nak bagi dia tidur day time. bila nak buat house work i letak zidan kat rocker and bagi hanging toys. tapi tak sampai 10mins pon with toys zidan mula menjerit jerit sambil babbling kat toys tu (marah sungguh toys tu tak boleh reply). if i nak solat pulak i selalu letak zidan kat atas katil, so bila mood baik ok la dia main and babbling sorang, tapi datang mood notty tu tak sampai 5mins pon dah menjerit sekuat hati nak mintak tolong ambik tapi bukan menangis setitik air mata pon tak ada ok. bila i ambik je terus ketawa happy (i yang mulanya terperanjat pon boleh jadik ketawa sama).

alhamdulillah, sekarang sleep pattern zidan for his bedtime makin better. naptime and feed time je lari timing sikit but still ok.

present from ayahanda untuk zidan. set buku & VCD al Furqan, Bahasa Arab and English for Beginner's. flashcard pon ada dalam set ni untuk mengenal huruf hingga zidan boleh membaca. later on i story pasal set buku & vcd ni sebab memang mudah nak ajar anak yang below 1year.

bought this munchkin flashcards in english and spanish during his 2mths old. zidan memang suka bila i tunjuk flashcards ni and he starts to focus on bila dah masuk 3mths.

Pancakes

2011-03-01T19:53:00.000+08:00

i eat pancakes all the time during breakfast, lunchie and sometimes for dinner tho. saja nak share recipe pancakes ala ala waffles ni.

1 cup (130 grams) all-purpose flour

2 tsp baking powder

1/4 tsp baking soda
1/4 tsp salt
2 tbsp (28 grams) sugar
1 egg
1 cup (240 ml) milk or buttermilk
2 tbsp (28 grams)butter/oil, melted
chocholate chips (opt) tapi i suka letak
ice cream (i prefer vanilla flavor) with chocolate syrup. sedap juga dimakan dengan kaya and jem strawberry.

How to do:

step 1: In a large bowl whisk together the flour, baking powder, salt and sugar.

step 2: In a separate bowl whisk together the egg, milk, and melted butter.

step 3: Add the egg mixture to the flour mixture, all at once, and stir or whisk just until combined.

sediakan pan and panaskan minyak (ratakan minyak atas pan dengan menggunakan tissue dapur).

pancakes yang i letak chocolate chip.

Dunstan Baby Language

2011-02-28T15:09:00.003+08:00

'Dunstan Baby Language' is a great way to tune into your baby life. Believe or not your baby can talk tho. i was only able to understand the sounds for hungry, tired and burp. when zidan starts to cry and speak his language. for sample 'Neh Neh Neh' i tau lah zidan nak breastfeed. so takde lah kena tunggu baby cues baru nak respond. mine also have baby's schedule but the good schedule takes into account the baby's needs.

the rest sound is same. susah sikit nak interpret the different cries;

Neh: I'm Hungry

Owh: I'm tired (like yawn)

Heh: I'm in discomfort (too hot, too cold, wet diaper or needs a change of position)

Eairh: I have lower gas

Eh: I have upper gas (like burp)

For more tips about Dunstan baby language, check here.

Pacifiers

2011-02-25T21:16:00.007+08:00

Pacifiers: are they good for baby?

when zidan was born, i remember how i tried to keep in mind and always saying to my hubby for not giving a pacifier to zidan. I believe that a lot of moms will have the same problem is whether or not to use a paci to baby. but, as time went on, my hubby and i start to think if ok we use paci. at 3 month old, now zidan started sucking his thumbs and fingers also have trouble sleeping. guess what? sometimes he only will fall asleep while bf-ing and trouble leaving the nipple. i read that moms should not use a paci until baby can latch onto your breast well or after 6weeks old (as this to avoid newborn gets confused between the nipple and pacifier) moms also have to consider offering a paci at naptime and bedtime because it will help protect babies from SIDS (i love this) it sound good. read more pros and cons about pacifiers here.

but, the problem i heard that some child will attached to a paci until they reach 3years above (wah dah kenapa). betul ke susah baby nak take off once dah jadi paci baby? So when is the right time to take paci away? i concern jugak if paci baby will gets some effects to teeth (in case of penyebab jonggang ke). kesian lah pulak. thee!

Pendidikan Cara Rasulullah

2011-02-13T01:05:00.000+08:00

7 tahun pertama (baby, kanak2)

-waktu untuk memanjakan anak dan tidak dipukul dan berikan kasih sayang sepenuhnya seperti mencium dan memeluk anak.

7 tahun kedua (kanak2 sebelum remaja)

-anak yang telah meningkat usia 7 tahun ke atas harus dipukul, dijentik atau didenda jika tidak bersolat dan melakukan kesalahan.

7 tahun ketiga (remaja)

-tidak memukul anak diwaktu usia remaja mereka malah mereka perlu didekati sebagai kawan. beri perhatian sewajarnya seperti selami hati dan mendengar luahan hati anak kerana di usia ini mereka cepat sensitif dan sukar untuk diramal sikapnya.

Topshop Make Up

2011-02-11T08:28:00.002+08:00

last month my mascara and eyeliner dah abis. for mascara i prefer Lancome and liquid eyeliner pulak Mac coz easy to apply tapi sebab last minute nak attend kenduri so i pegi je watson kat jusco and tried out eyeliner by simplysiti. if nak carik Lancome confirm kena pegi klcc, midvel paling tak pon alamanda. tapi almaklum la sekarang mana lah bole main redah je shopping complex ni kan. nak outing kena plan awal2 sebab si kecik ni makin kuat bf. tapi mebe product ni tak sesuai dengan kulit i kot especially eyeliner tak lekat sangat.

btw my hubby offer if i nak pegi klcc rabu lepas, hah apa lagi confirm la nak. itu pon sebab inform 4 5 jam lebih awal so senang la nak besiap and prepare tuk zidan. thot of eyeliner (the ink runs out so fast) and 2way cake yang dah nak abis tu harus la dibeli sebelum incident last minute jadik lagi plus my hubby yang memang pantang betul last minute plan ni. thee! lagi pon last week i received notification pasal Topshop make up in store now and only at KLCC outlet. Check them out at Topshop Make Up.

as i entered the outlet, i terus cari make up counter sebab zidan dah bagi hint nak bf so before dia menjerit baik i cepat. then i found the make up shelf it on the left side from the main entrance. i was scanning over the shelf to see the make up and while i try the make up, zidan pon start menjerit. aiyo hero mama ni tak bagi chance betul la sama macam ayahanda dia je. i pon terus keluar and pegi parent room. dah sejam melayan si kecik ni bf-ing, lepas tu die poo poo pulak. kena la tunggu nak tukar diaper.

then pegi balik Topshop in rushed sebab dah masuk maghrib. so i grab terus 2 items ni,

Powder Foundation.

Pen Eyeliner

Next visit, must have their pencil eyeliner and crayon eyeshadow. wink wink!

Ilmu Dunia & Akhirat

2011-02-10T07:08:00.001+08:00

spend my quality time reading Aniqah. "Kecemerlangan dan kejayaan anak sebenarnya bermula di rumah". i suka quote ni. tapi quote yang ni lagi best "Ibu adalah sekolah pertama".dan tak lupa jugak pepatah lama yang berbunyi "lenturlah buluh dari rebungnya". bukan mudah untuk mendidik anak menjadi insan yang bukan saja berjaya malah soleh.

dalam banyak content yang i baca, tajuk ni yang paling menyentuh hati "Hafaz Al-Quran Sejak Usia 4 Tahun". baru 4thn dah boleh hafaz 30 juzuk. Alhamdulillah. kagum sungguh. actually, my hubby and i penah terbaca blog ibu kepada si kecil ni time pregnant dulu. tak sangka dalam magazine ni pon ada cerita mengenainya, so i interested pulak nak bekongsi tentang beliau dalam post kali ni. menurut ibunya Darwisya Adriaana dah diperdengarkan surah surah al-Quran since berusia 6 bulan.

seperti kata Imam Al-Ghazali, ilmu yang perlu didahulukan ilmu al-Quran iaitu ilmu naqli (rohani) untuk membentuk seseorang menjadi hamba yang baik. lepas tu baru lah ilmu aqli (ilmu akal). Ibu si kecil juga menggalakkan anak nya makan badam, kismis, kurma, madu, habatussauda, buah zaitun dan air yang dibaca surah Thoha".

kepada ibu, mama n mummy yang breastfeed boleh jugak try Aiedil Dnavechee. ini bukan promote (bukan agent pon) tapi just nak share sebab i pon amalkan minum 2 kali sehari so far rasa lebih baik and energetic untuk bf-ing zidan. tapi sometimes i layankan jamah 2 3 ulas kurma, at least 7 biji kismis and madu royal jelly yang i beli dekat alamanda tu je sebab nak betukar menu. yang ni memang i telan since pregnant lagi. my hubby memang tiap hari tanya "dah makan kurma, kismis and minum madu ke hari ni" konpem lah tak lupa kan sebab dah macam alarm bagi reminder. thee! yang penting khasiat nya sama. baby 0-6bulan still tak boleh mamam so ibu lah yang kena amalkan style pemakanan sihat untuk baby.

Alhamdulillah, zidan juga dah diperdengarkan surah surah al-Quran since 1mth especially bila dia tengah tido waktu lepas subuh and selalu nya sampai la pukul 10 or 11pagi. sometimes waktu malam itu pon if zidan tido awal.

Make Your Positive Influences

2011-02-07T15:22:00.002+08:00

Children see, children do. They are always looking for role models, who can show them how to cope with life, give hope, and communicate about worth living.

wish I can be a good role model to my son. Insyaallah. motherhood is a journey which it take time and courage.

Magazine

2011-02-03T02:02:00.008+08:00

last weekend borong few magazines and one of it Aniqah january edition. actually 1st time beli magazine ni sebab subject untuk keluaran kali ni menarik and sangat perlu dibaca. dulu bila zaman sekolah twice a month sure i tak akan lupa beli majalah Remaja (pembeli tegar) lepas tu, masuk je University layan Cleo pulak. maklum la time tu baru nak belaja berfesyen la katakan. bila dah start kerja beli plak Herworld n etc. then bila nak buat wedding prep, segala jenis magazine pasal kahwin i borong setiap bulan Pengantin, Ratu Sehari, Bride n etc.if nak borong magazine kahwin2 ni better gi Kinokuniya, seriously banyak choice.

last yr around march we moved into our new apartment. haaa this time segala jenis magazine related dengan decor mesti i beli. especially Apartmen and Impiana Dapur memang best!

march last year pregnant. so, complete je buat renovation and decorate our new apartment i start borong magazine Parenthood, my favorite one PaMa and yang ni pon quite interesting Mami&Baby.

and now... bila dah entering motherhood life harus lah beli segala jenis magazine yang sewaktu dengannya kan.

ciao n 2 be cont... zidan awake ;-)

my lil prince

2011-01-19T19:38:00.002+08:00

Happy 2mths old Zidan Zihni! Mama & Ayahanda love u so much!!!
dah masuk 2 bulan ni zidan makin kurang tido day time. sumtimes sampai merah2 mata tahan ngantok. 6 7 kali mama repeat "twinkle twinkle" n "baa baa black sheep" br lah telelap itu pon just 30mins je zidan tido. malam at least 3 4 kali bangun bf, sudahnye eye roll on treatment tu dah jd bende wajib ade sbb mata dah macam burung hantu ni. zidan makin kuat menyusu manelah tak bambam... lepas bf plak tanak tido mulut potpetpotpet even mama tak paham ape zidan cakap tp seronok melayan sampai tak sempat nak buat keje rumah.

last weekend bawak zidan gi klinik Qistina untuk 2nd immune, zidan nangis kejap je time kne injection tu. memang good boy! last month injection for Hepatitis B, good boy ni tak demam sbb bf byk2. so this time lepas je injection terus bf kan zidan n sehari lepas tu every 3omins untuk elak demam. Alhamdulillah zidan tak demam. thanks to magic milk ni.

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1st time zidan kt padang bola...

1st trip gi midvel after confinement mode tuk beli stroller zidan kt mothercare.
plan nk gi alamanda je tp bile i call outlet kt situ takde model yg ayahanda nak ni.

baru 20mins stay kt stroller zidan dah menjerit nak keluar. maka ayahanda la
yg kene jadi stroller zidan.

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Happy 1 month old Zidan Zihni. Thanks aunty erna for the cake...

dah debabbb 4kg...

mulut kecik zidan yg jd rindu rinduan semua orang. hehe...

i ♥ Chelsea. my hubby yg belikan baju ni kt ebay. amoih, pandai nye ayahanda ajar zidan jd fan team faberet yeee...

daaa! zidan dah bangun. time tido die je leh update blog ni. itu pon berjam jam just nak update 1 post je. kejap2 kene stop sbb zidan awake.

Tweetts!

2011-01-18T10:00:00.001+08:00

wahhh, almost 2 mths... where have i been up to???

tadaaa...

Welcome to our lil prince Muhammad Zidan Zihni Bin Muhamad Azizi.

D.O.B: 19 November 2010 (Friday)

P.O.B: An Nur Specialist Hospital

Delivery time: 12.58pm

Weight: 2.5kg

Length: 47cm

His name given by my hubby sbb minat bola (play football, watch football) nama anak pon ade kaitan ngan footballer. sape tak kenal Zinedine Zidane tp ade jugak yg tak familiar ngan name player france ni.

back tu my son's name...

someone: sape name anak?

me : Muhammad Zidan Zihni.

someone: ohhhhh (yg sgt panjang) ... ZIDAN! (name yang selebihnye tidak diambil pusing)

me : aah, ye btul la tu (fav answer, ape lg nak ckp kan)

my 1st trip with zidan to klcc. while i usya kasut n baju. ade la 2 3 org amoi promoter kedai kasut, minah salleh (dlm lift), minah2 arab, chinese aunty n uncle say HI to my baby...

dotdotdot: whats ur baby's name?

me : as usual will mention his long2 name...

dotdotdot: ZIDAN?

me : yes. (while smiling to them)

dotdotdot: wow! nice name... thats a football player name. am i right?

me : yes yessss (smiling again)

dotdotdot: u like football? (sudah, byk plak tanye)

me : ermmm, (hubby, u la ni nak sgt name footballer) ... ohh, my husband he like

football so much thats y...

last2, sepasang kasut je la dapat beli...

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i dont feel to sharing my experience at the labor room since mommies will hv that experience too. here, just to share 15hrs before deliver my baby...

18/11/2010...

430pm: i feel pain... thot it Braxton Hicks. lately, slalu sgt kne false alarm...

5pm: while temankan my hubby play ps3 @ pink room, i feel sumthing came out, ouchhh! air ketumban pecah n bleeding... terus je grab my tudung n my hubby drive me to an nur...

540pm: sampai an nur, nurse terus bawak gi emergency room. OB dr.fatimah wasnt around during the time. bidan dtg buat check up, tp still tade bukaan (lega nye boleh la gi makan secret recipe lg pasni). after 5mins, they put me on CTG machine to monitor my contraction level. im not alone in the room but with my hubby. after45mins nurse came n tear the paper from the machine n asked me to wait.

7pm: nurse suruh balik dulu n inform if feel ur contraction frequently about 10-15mins cepat2 datang sini. (oh ok...) so i pon balik je la time tu contraction sekali2 je plus memang teringin sgt nak mamam secret recipe. ape2 pon baik makan dulu sebelum besalin.

8pm: at home n mamam secret recipe sambil tengok TV.

930pm: i feel pain every 20mins... tp boleh layan TV lg...

1030pm: i started feel pain from my back to the front... oh no, konpem! ini bukan false alarm... now the contraction came frequently 15-20mins. my hubby take note in a piece of paper. seyesly makin lame makin sakit!!!

1130pm: mmg dah taleh tahan! my waterbag dah leaking... my hubby terus bawak gi an nur...

12am: masuk emergency room... bidan cakap still takde bukaan. again, they put CTG machine on me. my hubby remind me to a breathing technique we learn during antenatal class.

1am: i admitted, since labor room penuh, so im warded. this time my contraction every 7-10mins

130am: nurse bg injection tahan sakit. i feel dizzy n very sleepy but still very painful.

630am: masuk labor room. OB dtg n seluk lg (tidakkk), only 1cm dilated n said "i rasa around 500pm ni baru u besalin"(wahh lame lg ke).

1258pm: syukur, Alhamdulillah with a normal delivery i've safely delivered my baby boy.

adee lagi...

2010-11-06T08:23:00.000+08:00

went to alamanda for a bathset quick hunting... ohh bathtub pon baru nak beli. lucky alamanda pon ade mothercare. so beli situ je la tayah gi jauh2 kan.

Buds for newborn from head to toe. ez kan, tayah nak bershampoo, shower gel n bla3... All in 1 set... then I just beli johnsons baby oil for baby massage... erm, baby powder tak beli, ek bukan sbb mama nye tak suke bedak. tp mmg I tak suke bedak pon... hikhik. from whut I heard n research newborn tak sesuai pakai bedak.

ayahanda bought this from Toys r'Us... Tq ayahanda! lepas ni baby leh tido lena lah...

KLCC

2010-11-05T09:35:00.000+08:00

finally, dapat jugak I gi klcc before deliver... lalala...
itu pon sbb my hubby kne gi ofis kjap. so I had my quick shopping.

my Lancome stick dah abis. so buy this cocoa lipbalm n lip scrub for me from Body Shop n rase teenager kembali!

36 weeks...

2010-10-28T20:46:00.000+08:00

Alhamdulillah, dah 36weeks... lepas ni kalo baby nak kua anytime je mama dah x kisah. hehe... cewah! x kisah la sgt... baby dah cukup fizikal n mental at this moment. tp mama only give u a green light once u dah 38weeks ye sayang...

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last weekend I went to Antenatal clas, even x compulsory to attend for mummy-2-be n most of the info we can browsing from intenet, ask gynea, read pregnancy book/magazine, but if u hv some free time to join, y not? at least u can learn n gain knowledge from the expert rite. im totally happy n seronok plak during the clas coz selain dpt info I can direct query to the specialist whats good n bad, do n donts.

here Im going to share only about one of the presentation, which I think it was important. hehe...
DELIVERY without pain with EPIDURAL - you still can feel the pain, but very little. Tapi, I still havent decided on epidurial yet but most probably I will try not to take it. If at early contraction dah tak tahan then I'll kot.

how is it given? fine plastic or tube will be inserted n place in the epidural space close to the spinal cord at ur back. then a drug will be injected thru it for pain relief n the dose can be adjusted accordingly to patients level of pain.

for those might hv no idea how to join the antenal clas, u can check with the nearest hospital or the hospital that u plan to deliver. for Gov hospital the clas if not mistaken only on weekdays. the fees from rm80-100 per couple n some hospital even free (well, kalo u dah registered nak deliver kt situ la)...

Ohh Cendol!

2010-10-26T13:45:00.000+08:00

lately mmg suke sangat iced water. (time ni je la dpt minum ice tgh bepantang 44 hari sure xleh minum kan) tibe2 I craving sangat nk minum cendol... tp mane nak cari cendol.

for reason why I suke sangat ice sbb bile malam je mesti rase hangat x hingat... kipas dah on max + air-cond pon dah max tp still hangat... every nite mesti awake 3-4 kali dgn bepeluh tp x kan nk mandi tengah2 pagi. kadang2 rase sakit perot macam nk period n tummy rase amat tegang. (slalu ckp kt baby saba ye tunggu lepas 38weeks br leh jumpe mama n ayahanda)...

ohh another 30 days... ade orang tanya kt I, rase bedebar nak deliver same x macam counting ur wedding day? i pon xtau nk jawab ape. hehe... tp rase nye kalo bedebar nak kawin mesti uoll akan imagine bende2 yang besttt je mcm fairytale story la. tp bedebar nak deliver, ohh harus macam2 yang terpk, sampai tido siang 10mins, 20mins pon leh mimpi...

sampai my wedding anniversary yg sebulan je lg pon, I kadang2 telupe. hehe... 29/10 ni genap lah 11 months our anniversary.

byk jugak jemputan makan nasi minyak, especially dah dkt nak cuti skola ni. tp maaf la macam x dapek je. plus lepas ni every weekend kne gi jumpe OB tuk check up.

Ibubapa derhaka

2010-10-22T15:06:00.002+08:00

Rancangan Semanis Kurma penah membincangkan topik berkenaan dengan isu IbuBapa Derhaka.

Selain itu, majalah Solusi juga turut pernah membincangkan topik menarik ini.

Ibubapa juga boleh derhaka pada si anak?
selalu darah si ibu atau bapa mudah saja rasa nak marah pada anak mereka sebab melawan cakap. sebenarnya, sebelum si anak derhaka kepada kedua orang tuanya, mereka terlebih dahulu telah derhaka kepada anak mereka.

Petikan cerita dari rancangan Semanis Kurma...

Seorang lelaki telah datang menemui Khalifah Umar al-Khattab r.a. mengadukan hal kederhakaan anaknya. Lalu Umar memanggil anak lelaki itu dan memarahinya kerana derhaka kepada bapanya serta lupa kepada hak-hak bapanya. Anak itu menjawab: “Wahai Amirul Mukminin, tidakkah anak mempunyai hak ke atas bapanya?” Umar menjawab: “Ya.” Dia bertanya lagi: “Apakah ia wahai Amirul Mukminin?” Jawab Umar: “Memilih ibunya, memberikan nama yang baik dan mengajarnya al-Kitab (al-Quran).” Anak itu berkata: “Wahai Amirul Mukminin! Sesungguhnya bapaku tidak pernah melakukan satu pun perkara tersebut. Mengenali ibu saya, dia dahulunya seorang hamba berkulit hitam dan tuannya seorang Majusi. Saya pula dinamakan “Ju’olan” iaitu sejenis kumbang biasa berwarna hitam. Dia juga tidak pernah mengajarkan aku walau satu huruf pun dari al-Quran. Umar lantas berkata kepada lelaki itu: “Kamu telah datang mengadukan kederhakaan anakmu, walhal kamulah yang telah menderhakainya. Kamulah yang telah berlaku buruj dan jahat sebelum dia berlaku demikian terhadapmu.” Begitulah, Saidina Umar meletakkan kesalahan kepada si bapa, lantaran kecuaiannya dalam mendidik anaknya sendiri.

ada tiga perkara yang bapa patut buat;

1. pilih isteri yg baik supaya dapat didik anak dengan sempurna

2. beri nama yang baik kepada anak supaya menjadi doa sepanjang hayatnya

3. ajar anak dengan al-Quran

Petikan dari majalah Solusi...

Ironinya, jika ada segelintir ibubapa yang sanggup mendera anak mereka dengan api dari puntung rokok di dunia, namun lebih ramai ibubapa yang bakal mendera anak mereka dengan api neraka. Ibubapa ini adalah Ibubapa yang tidak menunjukkan teladan yang baik dalam mendidik anak anak. Inilah ibubapa yang derhaka.

Anak ibarat sehelai kain putih, Ibubapa lah yang mencorakkan nya. Jadi, mengapa setiap kali berlaku atau wujud masalah dalam sebuah institusi kekeluargaan, anak juga yang pertama sekali dipersalahkan???

Chicken Pox

2010-10-18T23:30:00.001+08:00

alamakk... mcm takes turn plak. n now my lil bro kne ciken pox after my bro fizi. smalam gi jumpe die tp macam xde plak any symptoms. well, is there is any chance i akan kne jugak?

Get ready!

2010-10-18T19:30:00.000+08:00

baju2 baby n etc dah dibasuh. jom packing!

went back to my hometown amik kain batik. maklum lah kain batik sendiri mane cukup kan dah kate jarang2 memakainya. ahaha... then gi mid valley ngan adik2 ku. i just grab anything yg jumpe. x larat nk choosy time2 macam ni sbb kalo nak memilih sah rambang mata nati.

BH Contraction

2010-10-16T21:32:00.000+08:00

Apabila kehamilan anda semakin sampai kepenghujungnya, anda akan mula perasan ketegangan pada perut anda. Ia dipanggil kontraksi Braxton’s Hick dan salah satu simtom kehamilan yang kerap terjadi kepada wanita hamil.

Ia selalunya terjadi 2-3 kali setiap jam dan dalam 1-2 min setiap kali.

Ia terjadi seawal 6 minggu kehamilan akan tetapi ramai wanita tidak menyedari kewujudan kontraksi ini kerana ia sangat ringan dan singkat.

Apabila kandungan anda semakin berusia, kontraksi ini akan menjadi semakin kerap dan kuat dan kadang-kadang ia menyakitkan. Ia sebenarnya menyediakan ibu hamil kearah kelahiran dengan menolong melembutkan serviks dan menyenangkan ia untuk terbuka semasa proses bersalin.

Bagaimana Rasanya Kontraksi Braxton Hick Ini?

Sesetengah wanita tidak merasa sakit langsung namun ada segilintir yang merasa BH yang lebih kuat. Selalunya ia tidak menyakitkan, atau wanita mungkin merasa sedikit tidak selesa dan memberi gangguan pada mereka. Semakin dekat kepada tarikh jangka bersalin, semakin kuat BH ini berlaku.

Kontraksi BH tidak teratur dan datang sekali-sekali dan selalunya dengan tiba-tiba. Ia datang dalam masa yang singkat dan jarang berterusan selama beberapa jam.

Semasa kontraksi BH ini, perut menjadi tegang dan keras kadang-kadang ibu mungkin terasa sakit pada tengah perut hingga ke ari-ari.

Anda mungkin perasaan yang kontraks ini lebih kerap terjadi apabila:

Bayi bergerak dengan aktif
Semasa senaman atau membawa barang berat
Mengurut perut
Semasa hubungan seks
Dehidrasi

Apa Yang Membezakan BH dan Kontraksi Kelahiran Sebenar?

Ramai wanita bimbang yang mereka tidak dapat membezakan BH atau tanda-tanda kelahiran. Ini adalah perbezaannya:

Kontraksi BH tida menjadi semakin kuat berbeza dengan sakit bersalin. Sakit bersalin menjadi semakin kuat dan kerap manakala BH akan hilang akhirnya
BH tidak teratur dan berlaku sekali-sekala. Sakit bersalin berlaku dengan lebih teratur dan semakin kuat.
Kontraksi BH tidak menyebabkan kesakitan cuma tidak selesa tidak sebagaimana sakit bersalin

Tip Untuk Kekal Selesa Semasa Kontraksi BH

Tukar aktiviti atau posisi sekiranya anda merasa yang kontraksi BH akan datang
Rehat lebih lama. Minum air dan baring pada sebelah kiri badan
Minum air secukupnya. Dehidrasi menyebakan otot mengecut dan menyebabkaan kontraksi BH
Buang air kecil dengan lebih kerap. Pundi kencing yang penuh boleh menyebabkan BH.
Amalkan teknik pernafasan. Pernafasan yang dalam dan berirama akan mengurangkan ketidakselesaan

Baby Shopping

2010-10-10T00:47:00.000+08:00

at 8am went to Hentian Duta. lucky, x sesat since this is our 1st time went there. nway thanks to iera for her direction ;-)

at 10am dah sampai Empire, thot that shopping pagi2 x ramai tp org subang ni memang suke shopping pagi2 ;p masuk parking je dah penuh!

romper dah berhelai tp nati kne beli lg :D
mittens & botties pon byk tp bip ni kne ade bpe sehari? pakai time bf je kan sbb baby xleh mamam lg.

blankets dah beli...

fisher price found it at Toys r' Us. thanx ayahanda

dah beli yg ni n disposable jugak!

hah amik trus beli 6 box. gi hospital nak bwk bpe bwk?

alhamdulilllah, byk dah beli except few things je lagi. mama dah x larat nak jalan, jom kite blk baring depan tv sambil makan eskem :p

to buy for mama:
1. ~~cardi & shirt~~ - for BF kt hospital nati
2. ~~slippers~~
3. ~~sanitary pads~~

to buy for baby:
1. ~~barut~~ oh yg design2 mcm ni byk jual online. for unisex came only with plain color je (white) ade jual kt jusco in many brand such as Anakku, Tenders n so on.

2. ~~diaper~~ i plan to buy pet pet n huggies for newborn :D

3. ~~bathset~~...

4.~~cot & mattress~~

I love this gorgeous piece white cot, looked very classic. just feel like x sesuai plak for baby boy.

my hubby suke sgt yg ni... so kite beli yg ni je lah untuk baby.

5. ~~breastpump~~... for this we decided to buy Medela freestyle (FS). eventho the price is super expensive but it worth to buy.

6. ~~sterilizer, warmer & bottle~~... go for Avent :D

7. laundry box

at 5pm went to shira's openhouse. thankx for inviting us ;-)

sampai umah je trus tebaring... super tired okeh!

ke sane sini...

2010-10-08T23:44:00.001+08:00

This morning went to monthly medical check up.
Alhamdulillah baby sehat dah 1.7kg n my EDD macam dah betukar je from 25/11 to 12/12? tapi time check up pagi2 seyes blurr sampai telupe nak tanye doc in details. next 2 weeks kne gi lagi buat 2nd blood test (x best nye cucuk2) coz my hemoglobin was only 9.7 (very low), bla3x membebel plak. dlm hati (aih, doc ni x sayang mulut betul)... kuang2...

doc suh stop makan obimin n continue after deliver. dpt ubat lain tuk + darah merah.

after checkup gi brekfes ngan hubby kt mamak, yummy nye dah lame x dapat makan roti telor. hehe...

sedap kan?

we had our lunch at klcc, n after solat jumaat hubby gi ofis. me drive to sunway n lunch lg, this time pizza hut plak with my bro fizi.

almost 2 weeks tak blk hometown since my bro kne ciken pop. takut bejangkit :p
lepak n chit chat ngan my bro je sbb ibu n abah bz. lil bro haikal plak gi skola. around 7pm gtg sbb kne gi klcc blk...

my hubby ade conference meeting until 10pm. me went to klcc, niat nak membeli beli ape yg patut tp... (hah, x sampai 1hr dah penat gilos bejalan) perot n pinggang rase nak tecabut. ahaha... at last lepas kua je dr mothercare, i just seat n looking here n there (usya2 org lalu lalang)...

jom blk! esok jee lah shopping...

33 weeks

2010-10-04T08:44:00.000+08:00

Apa yang terjadi pada janin:
Minggu ini berat tubuh janin bertambah 1.8 kg, dan panjang tubuhnya sudah lewat dari 40 cm. Kulitnya sama sekali sudah tak nampak keriput, juga sudah tampak seperti manusia (bukan lagi seperti alien). Tulang-belulangnya semakin mengeras dan dan terjalin dengan baik satu sama lain. Kecuali tulang tengkoraknya, yang masih belum terjalin di bagian atas, sebagai persiapan untuk menampung perkembangan otaknya yang akan terus berlanjut sampai ia menjadi bayi dewasa.

Apa yangterjadi pada ibu:
Anda akan lebih sering merasakan limbung, karenanya carilah posisi duduk yang baik dan nyaman. Juga praktikkan cara bangun dari tidur yang benar (menyamping dulu, lalu duduk, baru berdiri).

Anda juga akan merasakan sakit atau kebas di jemari, pergelangan tangan dan telapak tangan. Ini bisa terjadi karena cairan tubuh lebih banyak berada di area itu, terutama pergelangan tangan, dan meningkatkan tekanan di lorong carpal (tulang berlubang di pergelangan). Coba gunakan handband di pergelangan tangan, dan sering-seringlah melakukan peregangan di jemari atau pergelangan tangan.

Banyak ibu hamil malah merasa seksi di tahapan ini, dan kebanyakan suami mereka juga setuju dengan pandangan itu. Lakukanlah penyesuaian-penyesuain agar Anda bertambah nyaman dan percaya diri dengan kondisi sekarang. Melakukan hubungan seks di trimester ini juga tak dilarang kok.

Minggu ini mengapa tidak …

Cuci baju/pakaian-pakaian baru bayi. Setelah dibeli sebaiknya cuci dulu pakaian-pakaian bayi sebelum nanti dipakainya. Ini juga berguna untuk menghilangan potensi infeksi yang dibawa dari pabriknya. Gunakan deterjen lembut, kalau perlu yang berlabel hipoalergen, untuk mencucinya.

7 weeks to go...

x packing lagi... ape yang kene bawak gi hospital erk?

Happy Befday my Husband

2010-09-29T12:35:00.001+08:00

Happy Befday to the love of my life and
the husband of my dreams...
I Love You!

dan kini hanya ada aku dan dirimu
sesaat di keabadian...

Happy Befday Ibu!

2010-09-14T01:32:00.001+08:00

Ya Allah, please protect my mum,
And keep her safe from harm,
For she is a cherished person,
With great wisdom, love and charm.
please, help her to see
How much she means to us,
Her loving family.
Happy Befday my lovely Ibu!

Selamat Hari Raya

2010-09-09T18:16:00.000+08:00

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri to All!
Mohon Maaf Zahir & Batin...

ok semua dah siappp... rendang, ketupat, kuah kacang, lontong... yummy! tgh lapa ni x saba nk tggu sok mamam sume ni (baby sok kite abiskan sume ok)

*happy 1st raya to us... selamat hari raya en hubby ♥ sok pagi kne mintak ampun kt hubby sbb mcm dah byk je ni buat dosa :p

11 weeks counting!

2010-09-07T08:35:00.000+08:00

Alhamdulillah im now at 29 weeks pregnant... syukur me n baby sehat. baby makin active. dah naik tunggang tebalik spaceship die ni. tak saba nye nk hug n kiss :-****

so many things to do n prepare for our greatest moment. insyaallah in 11 weeks times me n en hubby will try our best to preparing for our lovey dovey baby's arrival...

saje saje...

2010-09-06T08:10:00.001+08:00

teharu bace ni...

Di saat

Disaat kamu ingin melepaskan seseorang
ingatlah pada saat kamu ingin mendapatkannya

Disaat kamu mulai tidak mencintainya
ingatlah saat pertama kamu jatuh cinta padanya

Disaat kamu mulai bosan dengannya
ingatlah selalu saat terindah bersamanya

Disaat kamu ingin menduakannya
bayangkan jika dia selalu setia

Saat kamu ingin membohonginya
ingatlah disaat dia jujur padamu

Maka kamu akan merasakan arti dia untukmu
Jangan sampai disaat dia sudah tidak disisimu,
Kamu baru menyadari semua arti dirinya untukmu

Yang indah hanya sementara
Yang abadi adalah kenangan
Yang ikhlas hanya dari hati
Yang tulus hanya dari sanubari

Tidak mudah mencari yang hilang
Tidak mudah mengejar impian

Namun yg lebih susah mempertahankan yg ada
Karena walaupun tergenggam bisa terlepas juga
Ingatlah pada pepatah, "Jika kamu tidak memiliki apa yang kamu sukai, maka sukailah apa yang kamu miliki saat ini"

Belajar menerima apa adanya dan berpikir positif
Hidup bagaikan mimpi, seindah apapun,
begitu bangun semuanya sirna tak berbekas
Rumah mewah bagai istana, harta benda yang tak terhitung, kedudukan, dan jabatan yg luar biasa, namun..

Ketika nafas terakhir tiba, sebatang jarum pun tak bisa dibawa pergi
Sehelai benang pun tak bisa dimiliki
Apalagi yang mau diperebutkan
Apalagi yang mau disombongkan

Maka jalanilah hidup ini dengan keinsafan nurani
Jangan terlalu perhitungan
Jangan hanya mau menang sendiri
Jangan suka sakiti sesama apalagi terhadap mereka yang berjasa bagi kita
Belajarlah tiada hari tanpa kasih
Selalu berlapang dada dan mengalah
Hidup ceria, bebas leluasa

Tak ada yang tak bisa di ikhlaskan
Tak ada sakit hati yang tak bisa dimaafkan
Tak ada dendam yang tak bisa terhapus.

my 1st Ramadhan with en hubby...

2010-08-25T16:05:00.001+08:00

nmy 1st ramadhan with en hubby n our lovey dovey jr inside me... ramadhan tahun ni mmg jarang makan kt kedai sbb en hubby mmg suke sgt mencuba resepi2 baru. unless ade invitation tuk iftar br la kami akan berbuka di luar. alhamdulillah, pregnant n bepuasa tak begitu meletihkan, just sumtimes akan trase sgt lapa especially last2 ramadhan ni...

*~* hope not too late to wish "Selamat Berpuasa semua"...

Hee Yaa! Beading for Hari Raya...

2010-07-07T00:48:00.001+08:00

Tempahan HARI RAYA masih dibuka, hubungi untuk sebarang tempahan.

Nikmati harga promosi RAYA bermula dari hanya RM70!

Its a Girl!

2010-06-28T22:40:00.000+08:00

Tadi gi check up kt An-Nur seri kembangan n wow ITS A GIRL!
doc said "mebe girl ni"...
alhamdulillah...
baby girl or boy pon takpe yg penting baby sehat n selamat kan :-*

Lately...

2010-06-23T17:47:00.001+08:00

Erm, bile ayahanda nk bwk mama gi shopping ni?
lately rs mcm hari hari pon nk gi shopping. ekeke..

lately rasa macam susah nak tito, getting a bit uncomfortable n awake every 3 hrs at nite..

lately rasa macam masakan ayahanda je yg yummy very delicious compared to other cooking..

lately habits mama a bit change, dah mcm habit ayahanda lak.. baby ni nak ikot habit ayahanda die la ni kot... ahaha :p

miss Chelsea very much!

2010-06-23T17:00:00.001+08:00

everyday we mishhh u...
feel will never hv another cat like him.. sobsobsob!
take care my lil cute cat..

Happy 9th Befday Haikal!

2010-06-09T15:11:00.001+08:00

HAPPY BEFDAY to my lil bro Haikal Danny!

wishes u alwiz in good and Allah bless u...
love u bro!

The iPhone 4G coming JULY 2010

2010-05-30T18:52:00.000+08:00

I love to hv this one for me :D

Cats Family

2010-05-03T15:41:00.001+08:00

from left: Milan, Chelsea Jr, Mourinho

from left: Chelsea, Posh

sedih sbb bakal berpisah dgn kucing kesayangan. sejarah menjaga chelsea bemula since die 3 bulan lg waktu tu terjumpe chelsea depan pintu rumah sewa then sampai la skang die dah berusia 2 thn n ade 3 org anak kucings yg teramat comell...

mula mula terfikir nk bg orang lain tp sbb ada yg request nk anak die je, n sum of them nk seekor je kitten out of 3... bukan tak nk bagi tak mmg tak sampai hati nak pisahkan antara bapa ibu n anak anak die...

Terfikir...

2010-05-02T14:22:00.000+08:00

tibe tibe terfikir... dah pregnant br paham nape mcm tu n mcm ini... patut la bile pregnant rasa sgt malas, cepat letih n sgt letih... lipat baju 10 helai dah mcm 100 helai. hehe... nape moody? hikhik, termoody... sayanggg ayahanda-2-be... sbb sgt memahami...

tibe tibe terfikir... banyak yg dah berubah :D dulu kalo bg gi shopping sorang tu mmg best sbb leh borong satu shopping mall... tp skang dah tak best sbb jalan tu sgt lah penat n letih... dr gi shopping baik duduk dlm kete tggu je hubby yg tlg belikan sambil bace magazine or sedar je dah tetido... hikhik...

dah pregnant hari hari nk makan menu yg berbeza... kalo dulu suke sgt makan masak lemak cili api, tp skang tak lg... nk tgk pon dah tak de selera. tiap hari hubby kena tanye "Hari ni nak makan ape".... ekeke... soalan lazim yg sgt cute... nasib baik ayahanda-2-be sgt rajin slalu jd chef in the kitchen... waktu dulu breakfast tu xde dalam diary, tp skang wajib amik breakfast, kalo tak sehari tak de energy...

tak suke pada makanan yg masam, pelik sbb selalu org pregnant suke makanan masam... suke yg manis manis je. buah tembikai wajib ade dlm fridge, mangga pon kne yg manis je...

penin, pitam n cramp tu wajib lah bile pregnant... cuma berbeza ikot level kesihatan masing masing kot ;-)

Oh my day!

2010-04-15T15:15:00.000+08:00

Im 8 weeks now... getting nauseated around lunch time and it would last until early night, but now I am getting it more often. very moody lately, hehe... cian hubby ;-p I also have an enhanced sense of smell (especially bad smell) and extreme hunger but my half way eating mesti hilang selera :-(

feeling lazy, don't feel like doing anything but watching tv or sleeping... ok daa for now (sleepy!)

11 Reasons Why Im Not Blogging Lately

2010-04-12T14:29:00.001+08:00

1. Very much busy after our honeymoon trip.
2. I had limited internet access.
3. Been working on house renovation plans and budget.
4. Busy doing a home deco survey and shopping.
5. I'm preoccupied with thinking of a theme for our new home.
6. Every time I sit down to post, I remember something important I forgot to do.
7. My free time is now only when i went to sleep.
8. Wedding in the family.
9. Surfing internet and facebook-ing
10. Moving and packing
11. I'm pregnant. Im always sleepy!

Our home...

2010-04-07T17:00:00.000+08:00

1. ~~kitchen's renovation~~
2. ~~House painting~~
3. ~~Grills~~
4. ~~Plaster ceiling~~
5. ~~Lightings~~
6. ~~Red apple TV cbt~~
7. ~~Kitchen cabinet~~
8. ~~Bedroom set~~
9. Home deco
10. ~~dining set~~
11.etc...

Just sharing

2010-04-05T16:01:00.000+08:00

Petua orang tua-tua

1) Ketika isteri hamil, suami janganlah memburu, menganayia atau membunuh binatang. Kononnya amalan ini boleh menyebabkan anak yang dikandong isteri akan lahir cacat.

2) Minum air kelapa untuk bersihkan lendir-lendir masa bersalin nanti.

3) Tak boleh duduk di akar kayu - dikhuatiri uri tertinggal

4) Bila nak mandi towel usah lilit di sekeliling leher - dikhuatiri tali pusat melilit leher bayi

5) Suami jangan berlaku kasar pada haiwan - mengenan kat bayi

6) Petua org cina minum air sarang burung, sehari sebotol kecil -> kulit dan mata cantik.

Nasihat lain
1) Tidak perlu jalani ujian2 untuk mengesan janin cacat, kerana jika benar demikian , undang2 negara dan hukum islam tidak membenarkan menggugurkan kandungan walaupun janin cacat.

2) Dipercayai roh ditiupkan kedalam jasad bayi antara 4-5 bulan umor kandongan. Ketika inilah pergerakkan bayi mulai dirasa oleh ibunya.

3) Rerajin amalkan membaca Al-Quran dari surah2 Maryam, Yusof, Lukman dan sebagainya... semoga kita sesemua dapat bersalin dgn mudah.

4) Dengar lagu muzikal seperti mozart dll. Kalau gi kat kedai CD mesti jumpa koleksi khas lagu2 untuk org mengandung ni, mendengar lagu2 ni boleh merangsangkan sel2 otak baby supaya lebih pandai. Kalau ikut petua org islam ni perbanyakkan baca surah al-Yusof, luqman. kalau boleh suruh hubby bacakan sambil pegang perut wife. Biasanya buat bila baby berusia 7 bulan sebab masa tu sel otak tengah develop. So masa ni baby akan cepat menangkap bunyi dari luar.

5) Kafein buleh merencatkan pembesaran bayi manakala nenas mengandungi bhn kimia yg berbahaya pd bayi. Cuma buah mcm nangka, cempedak tu kalau boleh elakkan sbb berangin.

6) Jangan simpan kucing sbb najis dia boleh menjejaskan bayi. (x leh bela kucing? tp sy ade bela nk buang sayang lak :-( ... )

Pregnancy Info

2010-04-04T11:54:00.000+08:00

Pregnant?

* morning sickness, start pada minggu ke 7
* sakit perut rasa macam perut ni kembung, kalau baring mengiring pun akan rasa sakit.
* Period tak datang atau keluar sedikit jer darah
* Sakit belakang
* Constipation. This symptom is caused by hormone changes, and the growing uterus pressing against the bowel.
* Muntah2

tentukan anda berjumpa doctor secepat munkin. Mengapa? Anda perlu mengesahkan kehamilan, disamping kehamilan terletak didalam rahim, bukan diluar rahim ( Ectopic! Bahaya! ), ia normal dan janinnya hidup, bukan luarbiasa saperti hamil anggor (Molar pregnancy - juga bahaya! )

Tiga bulan pertama sangat penting !Ini adalah tempoh janin dibentuk, dari nutfah ( air mani) kepada alaqah, seterusnya menjadi mugdah, akhirnya menjadi janin yang lengkap dengan organ2 serta anggotanya. Organ yang pertama dibentuk ialah jantong. Denyutan jantong dapat dikesan oleh ultrasound seawal 6 minggu kandungan.

Cegah keguguran !Dianggarkan 10-20 % dari semua kehamilan akan gugur secara spontan.Lebihkan rehat, cukupkan tidur ( 8 jam ) tidur awal dan bangun awal. Jauhkan stress, fizikal dan mental. Jangan buat perjalanan jauh atau berpanjangan. Kurangkan pendedahan terhadap penyakit berjangkait, suhu panas, pencemaran udara, racun sembur, bahan kimia, Xray, ubat2 moden atau tradisional tanpa nasihat pakar.
Bagi mereka yang pernah gugur atau berulang kali gugur, dapatkan cuti medical atau tanpa gaji yang panjang. Jika perlu rehat dihospital. Hubungan seksual perlu dikurangkan, diperlahankan atau gunakan sarong kondom pada tiga bulan pertama kandongan. Doktor mungkin beri suntikan atau ubat hormon untuk kuatkan kandongan.

Cegah Kecacatan bayi !Makan ubat folic asid 5-10 mg, Iron dan multivitamin. Setiap hari dua bulan sebelum dan terus menerus hingga akhir kandongan. Makanan yg ada folic acid ni: Nasi, roti, asparagus, orange juice, kekacang(soya bean, tempe), sayuran hijau dan lain2. Minum susu untuk pembentukan tulang baby dan makan buah2an banyak kerana badan perlukan vitamin untuk menyerap zat2 makanan yang kita makan tu.

Tentukan sudah mendapat pelalian terhadap Rubella. Jangan cuba gugurkan kandongan dengan apa cara pun. Jika gagal bayi boleh cacat. Jangan makan ubat2 saperti tranquilizer, ubat kanser tanpa nasihat doctor. Jika ada sejarah kecacatan dalam kekuarga, dapatkan khidmat genetic counselling. Jauhkan hamil jika umor melebihi 45 tahun.

Berserah dan tawakkal kepada Allah swt. Doa setiap masa Rabbi habli miladunka zuriatan tayiba inaka sami u doa. Ya Allah kurniakanlah kami zuriat yang terbaik, sesungguhnya Kau mendengar doa kami. Lakukan suruhan Allah tanpa lalai, banyakkan membaca Quran, berzikir dan bertasbih sentiasa. Bacakan surah Fatihah, 3 Kul, dan ayat Qursi kepada bayi dalam kandungan setiap malam sebelum tidur.

h a p p y 2 + 1

2010-04-02T16:04:00.000+08:00

Syukur ya Allah! Alhamdulillah...
Im 6 weeks pregnant... hope everything gonna be alrite all this 9 mths... Amin!

Celebration March 2010

2010-03-11T17:37:00.001+08:00

Happy 54th Befday to My Abah!
Semoga sehat sehat selalu & Panjang Umur...

Happy 2nd Anniversary to BLOG Mymcflurry...

Happy Befday to me! ekeke...
this yr celebration sgt best sbb leh celebrate ngan my hubby. hehe. thanks sayang for the very special day ♥ it so much... muchie muchiee. I ♥ YOU!

Special Thanks to...

2009-12-11T18:11:00.000+08:00

1. Assistant of the day : Fizi
2. Hantaran's girl : Diha, Ct, Syira, Huda, Adik Huda, Shak, Aini, Eira & Rahimah
3. Bestman & Bridemaid : Halu & Lisa
4. Montaj : Lana
5. Emcee of the day : Syahizuan
6. Technical man : Mukhlish & Sol
7. Special task : Iman, Shuk, Muwa, Eita
8. Photographers
9. Family
10. Friends

*** Note: Dear All, It was great to finally get to meet you all at our wedding. Thank you so much for sharing and contributing to our special day. Your helps is a gift that is truly appreciated~

I Love U

2009-12-10T09:09:00.000+08:00

really love this moments...

kini hanya ada aku dan dirimu
sesaat di keabadian...

Reception @ Shah Alam - Part 1

2009-12-09T14:03:00.000+08:00

Flower Girl & Tuxedo Boy

2009-12-09T13:44:00.000+08:00

Thanks to Baby Haikal & Shafiqa ;-)

Excited!

2009-12-01T21:18:00.000+08:00

Beach, Sun & Sand, all with love. This is totally awesome!

Spa for two... for relaxing!

privacy room...

Pangkorrr here we come... we will be away for 4 days...
thanks sayang. I LOVE YOU!

Solemnization

2009-12-01T13:41:00.000+08:00

The Knot!

2009-11-30T01:40:00.000+08:00

Alhamdulillah :-)

1 Day before...

2009-11-29T01:14:00.000+08:00

whewww... less than 24 hrs before im getting married! cuakness...

AMARAN! me are not allowed to drive... amaran ini telah dikeluarkan oleh my mom. yes, mom! xtau la nape kan tp kate org tua tua jd pengantin x elok driving. so i am kne la turut je kate2 my mom tu. so officially adik akan jd my driver. ahahaa... jasamu dikenang bro!

Alhamdulillah, so far everything complete. preparation all done. my mom antara orang yg paling bz hari ni bcoz shes my wedding hall decor n will be assist by her staff ;-) good luck mom. love u...

Tarikh Nikah

2009-11-28T00:13:00.000+08:00

Majlis pernikahan kami akan berlangsung pada

29/11/2009 bersamaan dengan 12 Zulhijjah 1430 Hijrah
bertempat di Masjid Negeri, Shah Alam Selangor pada 11.00 pg

Nervous!

Semoga semua akan berlangsung dengan baik...

Doakan kami... Amin!

Happy Befday Adik!

2009-11-19T00:52:00.001+08:00

"The great successful men of the world have used their imagination…
they think ahead and create their mental picture in all its details,
filling in here, adding a little there, altering this a bit and that a bit, but steadily buildin."

I just LOST my phone today!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2009-11-16T00:11:00.001+08:00

TENSEN!!!

Happy 7th Anniversary... 11/11/2009

2009-11-12T09:42:00.000+08:00

For my perfect partner, Sweet lover, trusted friend,
"HAPPY OUR 7TH ANNIVERSARY SAYANG"

Before I met you..
I thought I was happy,

but I'd never known the deep satisfaction, searching for my other half,

Before I met you..
I felt a lot of things, good things,
but I’ve never had such thoughts before, So close…and more contented..

Before I met you..
I thought I knew myself,
but you looked deep inside me..

Before I met you..
I thought I knew about love, but I didn’t until met u,

I LOVE U all my life!

Nice song

2009-10-18T17:41:00.002+08:00

Bunga Citra Lestari - Aku Dan Dirimu

tiba saatnya kita saling bicara
tentang perasaan yang kian menyiksa
tentang rindu yang menggebu
tentang cinta yang tak terungkap

sudah terlalu lama kita berdiam
tenggelam dalam gelisah yang tak teredam
memenuhi mimpi-mimpimu malam kita

reff:
duhai cintaku, sayangku, lepaskanlah
perasaanmu, rindumu, seluruh cintamu
dan kini hanya ada aku dan dirimu
sesaat di keabadian

jika sang waktu bisa kita hentikan
dan segala mimpi-mimpi jadi kenyataan

meleburkan semua batas
antara kau dan aku, kita

reff:
duhai cintaku, sayangku, lepaskanlah
perasaanmu, rindumu, seluruh cintamu
dan kini hanya ada aku dan dirimu
sesaat di keabadian

ekeke...

2009-10-17T17:13:00.000+08:00

tiap tiap hari pk nak update blog... tp mesti x sempat gak nk update :-( many things yg nak update tp masa sgt mencemburui ku. ekeke... bile jumpe mesti ramai tanye camne ngan preparation? x cuak ke? bile nak buat family meeting? tema kaler ape? bile nak dapat kad ni? ye ye... disini adalah jawapan bg setiap soalan anda:-

1. preparation?
- alhamdulillah 80% done, yg belum final payment, collection baju & final fitting, deco hantaran, etc yg kecil² lg. Syukur gak daftar nikah pon selesai.

2. cuak?
-Ohh for sure sikit sebanyak tu mesti ade kan. makin dekat semakin naik % debaran tu :-D

3. family meeting?
- yes, compulsory! insyaallah 3 weeks before majlis.... cume venue masih dipikir² kan ;-)

4. Tema?
-saye ingin memaklumkan kpd semua bahawa kami memilih "HIJAU & PUTIH" sebagai warna tema majlis perkahwinan kami.

5. Kad Jemputan?
-sebahagian dari kad telah pun diedarkan kepada rakan²/saudara mara yg sempat berjumpe ketika sambutan hari raya lepas. bagaimanapun sebahagian besar kad masih belum dapat diberikan kerana kami masih mengumpul alamat² utk dipos.
-harap maklum kepada yg masih belum memberikan alamat diharap dpt berbuat demikian.

Happy Befday to Sayang 28 Sept 2009

2009-09-27T23:43:00.001+08:00

with my biggest hug..
HAPPY BEFDAY SAYANG :-*

Happy Befday Ibu!

2009-09-13T23:52:00.001+08:00

I alwiz love u mom!
may Allah bless u & happy alwiz...

Shopping!

2009-08-30T21:09:00.000+08:00

erm, cantik ke chiffon nih er?

alamakks, byk sgt yang cantik² ni... mane satu nk pilih er...

the day we went to kl to buy chiffon for my nikah outfit.

Wedding card & TQ tag

2009-08-29T17:01:00.000+08:00

altho that I am not the world's greatest DIYer. In truth, I look with envy upon those who can whip up gorgeous handmade details for their homes and their loved ones. But when I started the wedding planning, I will hardly try to make everything beauty and lovely. The thing is, I'm a perfectionist (cerewet seh) and as a deco lover, I always enjoy the decoration at other peoples' weddings so I can get a head start on drooling over the wedding's fare.

To back track... this afternoon went to showroom for our wedding card verification... cume edit skit kt map sbb map yg sedia ade too simple. ok done for card, perfect(puas ati). pastu gi kajang lak collect TQ tag...

did anyone know where to get a guestbook other than just buy from the stationery?

Happy fasting everyone!

2009-08-21T21:06:00.001+08:00

Selamat menyambut bulan Ramadhan Al-Mubarak...
Semoga Ramadhan kali ini lebih bererti bagi kite semua, Insyaallah...
Mohon maaf atas salah silap kepada semua :-)

Update??

2009-08-20T20:49:00.001+08:00

Waaaaa... dah lame tak update blog!! almost 2 bulan eh?
my new routine... bangun, gi keje... balik keje, tidoO!
miss mymcflurry so muchh! muah muahhh :D
will update soon yeh ;;)

Happy Befday to Baby 9 June

2009-06-18T20:42:00.001+08:00

Happy Befday to you! Happy Befday to you!

Happy 8th Befday to Haikal Danny...

Pergerakan Waktu

2009-06-18T17:31:00.002+08:00

Hari ni rasa lama sgt waktu bergerak...

tiap kali mesti pandang dari jam tangan ke jam pc dan bile rasa tak puas lagi tengok lak jam dekat hanphone... hurm masih x percaya pandang lak jam kat telefon ofis...

rase macam dah lama sangat duduk depan pc kt ofis ni tapi tak jugak sampai waktu balik.

aihh... waktu waktu bosan camni kalu dapat gi shopping mesti BEST! yes mmg sgt best!

Liking

2009-06-17T17:11:00.000+08:00

liking the design for both bride & groom dress...

Henna

2009-06-17T17:01:00.001+08:00

Simplicity is alwiz the best... hehe.

Pink favor

2009-06-17T16:13:00.000+08:00

Nice lace

wondering if I could hv a pair for myself... sobsobsob!

sweet moment

lovely butterfly effect. wallaa...

Tiffany in action

2009-06-15T16:46:00.000+08:00

an evening at the Starbucks

2009-06-11T17:21:00.000+08:00

17 Again

2009-06-08T15:55:00.002+08:00

Wut a touching movie as for me la not sure everyone else will feel the same. but i suggest to those r not yet watch 17 Again, tis movie r recommended to watch n sure u guys will not regret.

everything happens to you for a reason.

Garden Favors!

2009-06-08T12:27:00.000+08:00

Aromatherapy

tis is cool aite

Rose ball candles
cimply gorgeous for ur reception

guess wut? i really in love with this one...

Frosted Glass & candle
sweet tiffany...

Don't feel dumb, just go and share the world's best kept auto secret...

2009-06-08T11:35:00.001+08:00

WHO KNEW THIS???
I would think I should have noticed the little secret on my dashboard that was staring me in the face the whole time...
I didn't...and I bet you didn't either...
Have you ever rented or borrowed a car and when arriving at the gas station wondered......mmm, which side is the gas filler cap?
My normal solution was to stick my head out the window, strain my neck and look, try to see in the side mirrors or even get out of the car!
Well ladies and gentlemen, I'm going to share with you my little secret so you will no longer look like Ace Ventura on your way to the gas station or put your neck at risk of discomfort or injury.
If you look at your gas gauge, you will see a small icon of a gas pump?
The handle of the gas pump will extend out on either the left or right side of the gas pump?
If your tank is on the left, the handle will be on the left.
If your tank is on the right, the handle will be on the right (see photo). It is that simple!

Safety tips! BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY

2009-06-04T13:07:00.001+08:00

Everyone should take 5 minutes to read this. It may save your life or love one's life. Because of recent abductions in daylight hours, refresh yourself ... This is for you, and for you to share with everyone you know.

1 .. Tip from Tae Kwon Do : The elbow is the strongest point on your body If you are close enough to use it, do!

2. If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM . Toss it away from you. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc.) DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead start the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes get out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
A.) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat
B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door . Some serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back and get someone - guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, Preferably in a zig -zag pattern!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathy of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked 'for help' into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her 'Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' The policeman said, 'We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their doors when they're home alone at night. Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby.

Wedding Planner Horoscopes

2009-06-01T16:57:00.000+08:00

PISCES February 19 to March 20

Romantic Pisces rules the imagination, and your wedding is the perfect forum to express your creativity. Your sign is masterful at fantasy and fairy tales, and you love to bring your daydreams to life. A springtime or evening ceremony that allows you to indulge your feminine frills is perfect. Think floating, romantic gowns, pirates and mermaids, ethereal costumes or some kind of mystery location.

With your theatrical nature, you could make your wedding a collaborative performance piece. You might even recite your own poetry. With your wild imagination, who knows what you’ll come up with?

There’s a Cinderella in you just waiting to emerge, however reluctantly. Choose a translucent, flouncy dress with eyelets and lace—or else one that’s totally modern and unique. Honor your ruler Neptune, with glitter, sequins, opals, light–refracting jewelry—anything resembling a fish’s scales.

Pisces love a theme, so go wild and create one that excites you. A quirky, unusual location is key for you. As a water sign, you love the ocean. You may even want to wed on a yacht or ferry boat. Pisces rules film, so rent an old–fashioned photo booth for your guests. Or, hire a digital videographer to capture wedding highlights.

Night at the Museum 2

2009-05-30T20:46:00.001+08:00

must watch movie bcoz this is continuous from Night at the Museum 1. More adventure n more happening... the funniest character was Kahmunrah (hakhakhak)...

Terminator Salvation

2009-05-29T18:04:00.000+08:00

Smalam gi tgk movie ni kt alamanda ngan dear. jalan citer movie ni sgt superb, terminator 2, 3 n this salvation. the main character John Connor staring by Christian Bale muke same cam Beckham tlh menyebabkan movie ni lebih menarik. ekekek... never watch terminator 1 yet, anyone hv the cd/dvd?? sharing is caring aite :p hehehe...

Synopsis:Set in post-apocalyptic 2018, “Terminator Salvation” stars Christian Bale as John Connor, the man fated to lead the human resistance against Skynet and its army of Terminators. But the future Connor was raised to believe in is altered in part by the appearance of Marcus Wright (Sam Worthington), a stranger whose last memory is of being on death row. Connor must decide whether Marcus has been sent from the future, or rescued from the past. As Skynet prepares its final onslaught, Connor and Marcus both embark on an odyssey that takes them into the heart of Skynet’s operations, where they uncover the terrible secret behind the possible annihilation of mankind.

My Fren's Wedding

2009-05-28T13:07:00.000+08:00

sweet butterfly design

cool floral design

Cuti sekolah dtg lg! ramai kawan2 saye yg akan berkahwin. received invitation cards by hand/thru posmen n ecard thru email/facebook (more adv aite) hehehe... to my dearr frens thanx so much for inviting us. Insyaallah, will try to make it.

Sweet Pink

2009-05-26T08:56:00.001+08:00

Pink always be my fav ever! ;;)

Wedding Checklist

2009-05-25T16:48:00.001+08:00

Yeah my checklist done in excel format. hehehe...

9 to 12 Months:
- set your wedding date. Pick a few dates, just in case your desired venues are not available.
- Discuss with parents and future in-laws on the style & size of wedding ceremony.
- set a budget.
- Book a wedding consultant / planner.
- Book a date and the ceremony venue.
- Begin your guest list.
- Source for reception venues that suit your taste and budget.
- Organize and file all important documents in a systematic order. Keep a separate file for payments and receipts. This will help you keep track of what has been done, what needs to be done and also manage all your expenses.
- Begin shopping for your bridal dress and bridal accessories.

6 to 9 Months:
- Confirm and book your venues if you haven’t done so.
- Select your attendants’ bridesmaid, best man. Inform them about their duties.
- Select the bridal boutique, followed by the bridal dress and suits.
- Search for reputable hair & wedding makeup artist.
- Select your favourite caterar and menu.
- Shop for bridal accessories like bridal shoes and jewellery.
- Help mothers of the bride and groom choose their dresses.
- Research and book your wedding photographer / Videographer.

3 to 6 Months:
- be sure deposits are paid and contracts signed.
- Work on the final arrangements’ programs for wedding day, entertainment, etc.
- Order your wedding cake.
- Final confirmation on wedding venue.
- Visit your hair and wedding makeup stylist/s. Discuss and try out different looks.
- Ensure bridal dress and suits are ready for photography.
- Have studio/outdoor wedding photography taken.
- Choose / buy wedding rings and hantarans.
- Start finalizing plans for your honeymoon.
- Arrange wedding transportation.
- Arrange out-of-town guest accommodations.

1 to 3 Months:
- Print wedding cards.
- Reconfirm for catering menu details and food tasting.
- Confirm travel arrangements and hotel bookings for your honeymoon.
- Check your passbook availability and obtain a visa (if required).
- Decide venue decorations details with the wedding planner or hotel.
- Choose wedding favors / gifts for attendants.
- Mail wedding cards.
- Have a final fitting at the bridal boutique.
- Finalize your transport, flower and entertainment arrangements.
- Choose henna designer and design.
- Arrange for rehearsal if necessary at least one week before the wedding.
- Prepare payment envelopes for the fees and gratuities; Eg. Your jurunikah, organist, etc.
- Practice wearing your bridal shoes (at home or indoors) avoid blister feet on your wedding day.
- Ask relatives and friends to help at the wedding and reception.
- Buy your guest book.

2 to 3 Weeks:
- Confirm final wedding tentative.
- Finalize seating arrangement for VVIP/VIP, family and guest banquet.
- Arrange your head table seating.
- Pack for your honeymoon.

1 Week:
- Have your rehearsal (if applicable).
-One last fitting of your bridal dress to ensure the size fits as there can sometimes be drastic weight loss due to nervousness as the big day approaches.
- Book a relaxing massage or spa to soothe away stress you have built up over the months.
- Rest and eat well, drink lots of water so you’ll be absolutely fresh for the big day.

1 Day ahead:
- Get a henna.
- Pack things to take to the wedding site.

On your Big Day:
- Take a good breakfast.
- Have your hair/tudung and makeup done.
- Enjoy the day.

After Wedding Day:
- If you are going away on your honeymoon immediately, ask someone to help you tie up loose ends such as returning of loaned / rental items.
- Send ‘Thank You’ cards / sms even if abroad as it shows you have not forgotten the help of those who had offered their assistance.

GOOD LUCK!

White lace

2009-05-25T13:55:00.002+08:00

I really like the design except the silver ribbon there.

Norjuma in her berinai kebaya designed by Radzuan Radziwill

Happy Mother Day

2009-05-13T17:09:00.001+08:00

Happy mother's day to my ibu. I LOVE U so much! last monday our family went to restoran chip&chop or famously known as restoran KAPAL at kampung baru, KL for mother'day celebration... my 1st time having dinner kt situ, erm yummy. not expensive, very affordable ;-)

It's another Engagement

2009-05-12T18:00:00.001+08:00

me, dear & my gurfren macik muwa went to Nicol's house last saturday for her engagement. hantaran, mini pelamin n of coz macik nicol are very pretty sweet when it comes in pink.

Well, Congrats to both nicol & kamarul. welcome to the club.

Nicol in loving pink ;;)

Congrats to naddy too on her engagement.

note: all pics are grabbed from eita's blog.

Congrats to UPG

2009-05-07T17:09:00.001+08:00

this post is dedicated to UPG 08/09 as the BEST Club in MMU Awards 2009 for the Best Interest Based Club category. UPG had a great time since 06/07 n last year too 07/08 with total of 9 awards.

Congrats all, Well done! Keep up a good work. Wish the BEST for UPG.

dress maker

2009-05-04T22:58:00.002+08:00

Still doing my survey n surfing few of designer website. not yet finalised which designer yg menjadi pilihan hati. grrrrrr! penin byk sgt pilihan. my top list for this time:-

1. Man kajang

2. Freda

3. lynda's rahim

4. Kimie kajang

5. saidatulnisa

6. or tailor biase (murah pon murah)

any other suggestion? hehehe...

i was stunned to man kajang website to see his collections. im thinking of to save my french lace for reception dress or proceed the lace for my nikah outfit.

for my nikah outfit, I wish to have chiffon patched with laces macam baju ni.